How to help students navigate drama in group chats
If you have a tween or teen with a smartphone, you know how active group chats have become.
Posted — UpdatedStaying close to friends and family is important -- this need was made apparent during the social distancing phase of the pandemic and is reignited annually during the long holiday break from school. But oftentimes, quick communication between large groups of friends can lead to challenges -- such as a joke taken too far or a misinterpreted message.
How do group chats lead to drama?
- Think Before You Type: Be mindful of what you say. Don't spam the chat with too many messages, and think about how your words might be taken.
- Remember Screenshots: Anything you say in the chat can be screenshotted. So, it's smart to keep things respectful and avoid sharing private stuff.
- Know What Causes Drama: Learn what usually makes drama in group chats – misinterpretations, too much talking at once, arguments, taking jokes too seriously, and leaving without saying why.
- Solve Problems Privately: If there's an issue, talk about it privately with the person involved instead of making it a big deal in the group chat.
- Include Everyone: Make sure everyone who should be in the chat is included. No one likes feeling left out.
- Use Emojis and GIFs: Add emojis or GIFs to lighten things up when it gets tense. It can make conversations more fun.
- Take Breaks: If things get too heated, take a break from the chat and come back when things have cooled down.
- Video or Phone Calls for Serious Stuff: If something's important or sensitive, it's better to talk through video or phone calls. It avoids misunderstandings that can happen in text
As a new year approaches, let’s empower students to leave negativity behind in 2023, starting with group message drama. By encouraging your kids to play to their core, handle the pressure, and cyberback one another, they can help create a positive environment with friends and family this year and beyond.
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